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Courtney Beardall wrapped up her interview with me by sharing this sage advice: “If you’re going to be happy in your marriage, you have to decide to be happy. You have to decide and make that choice every day. You have to not just “be happy.” You have to enjoy your spouse. Find genuine joy in…

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My all-time favorite novel is Ayn Rand’s Atlas Shrugged. It helped me see where I had been enabling other people in my life. It helped me grow a spine and set boundaries in relationships. It opened my eyes to where I had lost myself. Reading Atlas Shrugged was one of the first steps I took in finding my way…
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It is difficult to become a good, compassionate listener who both validates the pain of the other while maintaining the ability to look at themselves. Each person must listen compassionately to themselves and each other. Within many relationships, rather than engaging in compassionate listening, many couples polarize. One partner is the voice of reason, the…
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Countess of Grantham: “You’ve been talking to Isabel….” Earl of Grantham: “I have been talking to Cora” Countess of Grantham: “That is a mistake.” Lord Grantham: “You can’t expect me to avoid talking to my own wife.” Countess of Grantham: “Why not? I know several couples who are very happy who haven’t spoken in years.”…

Marriage Properly Defined Transforms Our Relationships
When I interviewed Debra Brown Gordy of TheSophiaWomensInstitute.com , she shared with me this important mind-shift about marriage that can completely change the way we view it and the results we get. “In the conventional mainstream world, marriage is viewed as a contract like a business contract or arrangement. If a person and their spouse…
Finding Mr. Right
I saw this post about “How to Get a Man to Love You.” I spent time during my dating years reading stuff like that. Trying to figure out how men tick and what I was supposed to do to “make a man love me.” Here’s what I discovered… STOP trying to make a man love…